My 73-year-old father just blew his entire retirement fund on a $35,000 Harley Davidson instead of helping me pay off my loans, and he has the nerve to call it his “last great adventure.”
For five decades, he wasted his life in that grimy motorcycle repair shop, hands permanently stained with grease, smelling of motor oil and cigarettes, embarrassing me in front of my friends with his faded tattoos and leather vest. Now that he’s finally sold the shop, instead of doing something useful with the money like helping his only daughter get out of debt or putting a down payment on a condo I’ve been eyeing, he’s “investing in his happiness” with a ridiculous midlife crisis motorcycle.
Yesterday, when I confronted him about his selfish decision, he actually laughed and said, “Sweetheart, at my age, all crises are end-of-life crises.” As if that’s funny. As if his responsibility to support me ended just because I’m 42. He doesn’t understand that I deserve that money more than he does – I have decades ahead of me, while he’s just going to ride that stupid bike until his heart gives out on some remote highway.